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Optimize Mental and Emotional Fitness

Optimize by Gordon

Gordon provides expert online psychological sessions designed to meet your specific needs.

With over 20 years of experience in Cognitive Psychology, CBT, Trauma and Person-Centered Counselling, Gordon combines proven techniques with a deep understanding of personal development.

The approach blends coaching, cognitive-behavioral therapy, comparative/evolutionary and positive psychology to strengthen mental fitness, build resilience, and increase self-awareness.

Gordon provides support for clients in the UK and USA, ensuring flexibility and accessibility. Take the first step toward a healthier, more resilient you—book your session today.

Optimizing Emotional Resilience

As an experienced psychologist, I am dedicated to supporting individuals, helping them navigate challenges and improve their emotional resilience. My services are designed to address a range of concerns, including relationship difficulties, imposter syndrome, anxiety, depression, and porn addiction.

Services Offered:

  • Relationship Support: Helping you build and maintain healthy, fulfilling relationships by addressing communication issues, emotional intimacy, and conflict resolution.

  • Imposter Syndrome: Assisting you in overcoming feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, empowering you to recognize and celebrate your achievements.

  • Anxiety Management: Providing strategies to manage and reduce anxiety, helping you regain control and live a more balanced life.

  • Depression: Offering support and techniques to lift your mood, increase motivation, and improve overall well-being.  Please note if you are having persistent thoughts of harming yourself please seek immediate medical help.

  • Porn Addiction: Addressing the impact of pornography on your life, helping you develop healthier sexual attitudes and behaviors.

Special Focus on Men’s Issues: Men often struggle with reconciling their sexual desires with societal expectations, exacerbated by the influence of social media and the porn industry. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and problematic behaviors. My approach aims to help men aged 25 to 55 understand and manage these challenges, particularly during key life events such as forming initial intimate relationships, the birth of children, and navigating the menopause. By addressing these pivotal moments, we can foster healthier relationships and self-perceptions.

Therapeutic Approaches:

  • Cognitive Therapy: Identifying and changing negative thought patterns to improve emotional regulation and problem-solving skills.
  • Person-Centred Counselling: Providing a supportive and non-judgmental environment to explore your feelings and experiences.
  • Positive Psychology: Focusing on strengths and positive aspects of life to enhance well-being and resilience.
  • Comparative and Evolutionary Psychology: Understanding human behavior through the lens of evolution and cultural context to provide deeper insights into your issues.

Remember, in any situation, the only thing you can change is yourself. By making unconscious decisions conscious, you can take control of your life and achieve lasting change.

Confidentiality and Privacy: Your privacy is my utmost priority. All sessions are conducted with the highest level of confidentiality, ensuring a safe and secure environment for you to explore your thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or breach of privacy.

What You Can Expect:

  • Non-Judgmental Environment: Sessions are conducted in a supportive and non-judgmental manner.
  • Session Structure: Sessions are typically 55 minutes in duration and can be scheduled weekly or bi-weekly, depending on your needs.  There is no commitment to a number of sessions and you are free to stop and start as you feel appropriate.  For guidance a typical number of sessions can be anywhere from 3 to 12.
  • Expected Outcomes: We will work together to set realistic goals and measure progress, aiming for improved emotional regulation, healthier relationships, and greater self-awareness.
  • Support Between Sessions: Additional resources such as reading materials and exercises may be provided to support your progress between sessions.
  • Cost and Payment Options: First session is free of charge. Each subsequent session is £125 to be paid at the time of booking.  Please see the Terms for full details.
"Having struggled with CFS for a long period of time, meeting Gordon has enabled me to finally come to terms with my diagnosis, and, through time, is helping me to live alongside it. He has offered time, techniques and guidance throughout this process, in a safe, welcoming and friendly environment. I cannot thank Gordon enough and would have no hesitation in recommending him."